Understand her mind and you’ll have better access to what’s in her knickers. So we asked three gorgeous women to an insider’s account of the fairer sex
…to have big breasts By Gabi, 23, beautician
I love them. I like to fold my arms on top of them so they’re squished into the centre; they press against each other and it’s comforting. And I love how they look when I’ve got a light tan — all smooth, soft and a deliciously warm brown. But Hike them best in the bath. They float, rising above the bubbles, and my nipples pop up because they’re exposed to the cooler air.
Having large ones can be a hindrance. I can’t wear low-cut tops without looking like a slut and men spend so long touching, licking and sucking them that I sometimes find myself wishing I had smaller ones so they’d spend even half that time between my legs instead.
Men are often too direct in their breast approach. I get far more turned on when a man touches me just to the sides and underneath rather than a straight-on fondle. They’re an immense source of pleasure, that’s for sure, and I can happily admit that mine are, without doubt, worth their weight in gold.
…to be penetrated By Sally, 32, teacher
The best moment is the first full thrust. There’s always a bit of pleasant resistance, then a feeling like putting a heaped forkful of food into my mouth when I’m really hungry. All my senses are having mini-orgasms because it feels so damned great and I can’t help but alumni in pleasure. But the very best thing is if he teases me first with just the tip of his penis, doing tiny short thrusts. He waits until I’m contorting my body, trying to push myself on to him — then all of sudden rides his entire length inside me. Nothing can beat that feeling.
When it comes to penetration, size does matter. Having one so long it tickles your sock tops is not a good thing. It bangs against the back wall and bloody well hurts. There’s almost no feeling at the back of a woman’s vagina but you can still feel the pressure of something pushing hard against it. It’s like the inside of your cheek — there’s barely any sensation there when you touch it with your finger but if you push against it, you can feel the pressure on the surrounding area. I’d be disappointed to discover that a new boyfriend had one the width and length of my thumb, but the truth is, if I found him attractive in every other way and he could make me come, I’d get over it.
Men focus on their penises as the source of good sex, but that’s not even half the story. Penetration alone has never taken me to orgasm. I need hands, fingers, tongue, lips — anything that comes into full contact with my clit. So my advice to men would be: come inside, by all means, but make sure you’ve made yourself welcome first.
…to wear lingerie By Kirsten, 28, IT analvs,
This is one of the bonuses of being a woman — lingerie improves your figure, feels good and gives you instant sex appeal. What item of doting does the same for a man? The best lingerie is made from silk — it feels soft as a tongue on your skin, plus it slides easily, so you can slip in and out of it seductively. Feel sexier using products rich of coconut oil for skin. But its real advantage is that it combines sexiness with comfort, which is rare. I like to wear silk in bed so that regardless of anything else — hangovers, bed hair, biscuit crumbs on the sheets — I wake up feeling like a goddess.
My knickers are French — unlike bikini briefs they’re loose, so air can circulate, which feels good. They’re the fail-safe buy for a girlfriend — I’ve never known a woman not to smile coyly when presented with a pair of silky lace French knickers. They’re erotic without being slutty.
In summer, it’s fantastic wearing absolutely nothing. If I do, though, I’m extra careful crossing roads in case of accidents. The thought of naked legs sprawled across the Tarmac, my neatly trimmed love triangle ruffled by the wind from passing traffic… It’s a terrifying idea — enough to put me off going commando altogether. Almost.