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Want To Get Kinky? How About Cuckoldry?

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

 

How daring are you? Is your man willing to wear a chastity belt, just to please you, while you have sex with another man right in front of him?

That's called cuckoldry, and it's a very kinky BDSM practice. BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism.

Ewww!!!!, you say! Bondage is icky! Well, it floats some people's boats, but not others. Do you like to be tied down with silk scarves while your honey slides an ice cube across your bare skin? If so, you like sensation play, which is a form of BDSM. While cuckoldry might be a bit much for lots of people, it just might appeal to you to some extent, especially if you like introducing new partners into your sex play. Polyamorous couples and swingers sometimes like this form of BDSM.

Some cuckolding FemDom scenarios involve the man being restrained in a chastity belt while he watches his woman having sex with another man. The humiliation of being unable to satisfy her especially while another man is able to do so is sexually arousing to him. While he is aroused, he is not permitted to come. There is an untold competition between the two men; mostly being that the man having sex with the woman is viewed as superior physically and sexually to the man being cuckolded. The chastity of the cuckold is important to the cuckolding FemDom scenario.

The Dominant woman is referred to as the "hotwife". She enjoys that sensation of being filled by another man, especially if her Sub is unable to please her because he is shackled and belted. She gravitates towards an Alpha Male "bull" or "stud" who is physically and sexually more potent than the cuckolded Sub, according to the rules of cuckoldry play.

Humiliation speech is very important to the cuckolding FemDom scenario because everyone involved gets off on the heightened sex play and terminology. The Dom woman refers to her cuckolded Sub as a "loser", "pathetic little boy", and other epithets that downgrade his sexuality, but he is not turned off by the put-downs. Not at all. She gets off on the power she has over him, while he is aroused by his humiliation.

The chastity belt is a very important sex implement used in cuckoldry. The chastity belt holds the penis, allowing it to become erect but forbidding any manual stimulation. The purpose of wearing the chastity belt is so that the man may be aroused but not permitted to come to orgasm. Humiliation is what matters. In cuckoldry, pleasing the Dom woman sexually is of utmost importance.

While cuckoldry is not for everyone, for those who enjoy it, there are many quality leather chastity belts to choose from. If you want to add a little edginess to your sex life, try cuckoldry.

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