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Are you in a relationship (M/F), and both of you are interested in having a MFF threesome? I had one. Make sure you talk about exactly what it is that you want.
Do you want a one-time fling or a lasting relationship with a third person? A bisexual woman like me may want to have a relationship with a woman in tandem with her relationship with a man. That kind of threesome may take a bit longer to set up because the three of you need to become friends and then intimates first.
That's what my husband and I did with our threesome. It took awhile to gel, but taking our time satisfied both Linda and me. A fling may be easier, assuming that is what you want. I'm well aware that many men have a fantasy of seeing their female lovers getting it on with another woman. In my opinion, when arranging a MFF threesome, the focus should be on the two women, not on the guy. That way, what the two of you bring in does not become a prop for a male fantasy. Now, if she wants to be a prop, more power to her. Whatever works for the triad is fair game.
Swinger web sites, science fiction and fantasy conventions, New Age bookstores, and polyamory web sites are great places to find potential partners. Strike a rapport with the women you meet. Take the time to get to know them. If you are looking for a more permanent female partner – a "V" set-up according to polyamory – it's important that the three of you get along and have similar interests. Think of looking for a new woman as a job interview. You are looking for certain characteristics, and she will be looking for the same.
Ice breakers help to make things move more smoothly. Back rubs and massages are a great way to set the mood and relax at the same time. Linda used to stay overnight at our place, and we'd "watch" South Park while my husband would give us shoulder rubs. We loved raunchy comedy. Nearly naked, the three of us would sit around, drink wine, and make out. Linda was a good kisser. If we weren't laughing over silly movies, we listened to Trance Nation or Lords of Acid. We had a fun, sexy time together.
The fun may travel to the bedroom. Make sure your sheets are clean and that your oils and massagers are well within reach. Bring your own dildo. In my opinion, the man should focus on the pleasure of the two women, especially the new woman. All three of you will be satisfied, especially since you are already comfortable and familiar with each other.
Above all, take your time, and enjoy each other. If things go well, you can repeat the scenario the next weekend. If things go very well, you may have a long-term third partner.
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